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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

孩子被勒索骗局

这也是我们坚持不送孩子进名校、而是送到附近学校的其中一个原因!


以下是淑云和她丈夫锦贵的亲身经历,摘自锦贵的部落格。我万万没想到他州频传的孩子诈绑案竟然也在槟城发生,而且还找上身边的朋友! 请大家警以为诫。 建议有孩子尚在求学的朋友,随时要有学校的联络号码。 市道不好,大家要多小心、保重呵。

景丽上
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2009328星期六

惊心动魄30分钟--孩子遭绑架欺诈真实案件

昨天, 2009327日,中午1点,我和太太亲身遭遇一宗 孩子疑被绑架的欺诈案,让我俩渡过了毕生难忘的惊心动魄30分钟,原本平静的生活忽然跌进极度恐慌的深谷,到现在心情还没有真正恢复过来。。。
昨天中午1点,我正准备出门,拿补习讲义到复印中心给人复印。这时,家里电话响起,我自然地拿起来接听。接听前我看到显示荧幕出现 “out of area” 的字样,我不以为意,直接接通电话。
爸爸!爸爸!救我!
爸爸叫他们不要打我!
爸爸,为什么你不来救我?叫他们不要打我的耳朵!
电话另一端传来令人惊心动魄的孩子哭叫求救声。
我的心顿时跌进无底的深谷!
一股不祥的念头涌了上来, 阿进被绑架了!
我立刻对着电话大喊, 阿进,你什么事了?你在哪里?你在哪里?
电话另一端继续传来孩子的凄厉哭泣求救声,我头脑一片空白,记不起孩子在喊什么,隐隐约约听到孩子哭叫道,我被他们抓走了。。。
我真的是手足酸软,头脑麻痹,惊慌着把电话交给太太听。我不知道她听到什么,只看到她整个人崩溃似的哭了起来,对着电话狂喊, 什么?什么?什么?
我连忙把电话抢回来听,电话另一端出现短暂的沉 静之后一个男人的声音响起, 哈喽!
我自然地用福建话向对方大声喊道,
你们到底是什么人?
我的孩子现在哪里?
不要打我的孩子!
不要吓到我的孩子!
对方这时开口说, 喂!老兄!我听不懂你在说什么!我们用华语交谈吧! 是浓浓的中国腔调。
老兄!我告诉你!你的孩子现在我的手上,我是通缉犯,走投无路,现在要逃命,需要一些费用。我是来求财的,只要你合作,孩子包你没事!
我的心急速地往下沉!
脑子浮现了孩子被人捆绑、殴打、虐待的凄惨画面,更不应该浮现的是孩子被人。。。撕票!
哦!我的天!怎么会发生在我身上?我心里暗忖着!
我强力压制恐慌的心情跟对方交谈,真的担心自己一不小心说错话就会惹怒对方而给孩子惹来杀身之祸。 好的!我和你们合作。。。你们到底要怎样?不要吓到我的孩子。。。你们要什么我都依从。。。
好!爽快!我们是来求财的!我现在要 60千,你有没有这笔钱?
我哪有 60千这么多钱?我自然地告诉对方。的确,要我在短短时间内拿出60千,哪有可能?
好!你既然这么说,就表示你没有诚意要回你的孩子!就让你的孩子消失。。。
哈喽!哈喽!我们好好谈!我想办法!我想办法!别伤害孩子!我一心就只挂念着孩子的安危。。。
老兄!你把钱存在什么银行?
“CIMB

你现在去检查看你的存款有多少?我给你一小时的时间去准备60千,如果时间到我拿不到钱,你就永远见不到你的孩子。。。
好。。。好。。。好。。。你等我检查。。。 我慌乱的冲入书房取出银行存折 ,抖着手翻开来看,不假思索的告诉对方,“xx千!我只有 xx 千!我会再想办法筹钱,只要孩子没事。
只有这么少?不过,看在你肯合作的份上。。。好! xx千我也拿了!你现在乖乖地听我的指示,我拿到钱就保证你的孩子安全回到你的身边!
这时,我忽然镇定下来,虽然我的双手在发抖,我的双脚已经发软。太太在一旁无助地低声哭着,口中念念有词,不可能!不可能的!我明明看着阿进走进学校的!她在努力压低自己的声音。
老兄!叫你的老婆别乱喊乱叫!发生这样的事不是很光荣,如果大喊大叫惊动邻居,邻居报警了,你的孩子就没有了!电话传来对方恐吓的声音。
好。。。好。。。好。。。我叫她不要乱吵。你快告诉我该怎么做!我一面用手和脸部表情暗示太太冷静,心里告诉自己,千万不可再拖延时间!我必须尽快让孩子脱绑安全回来, 我不能让可怜的孩子被惊吓受伤害!
说真的,当时我完全没有想到这是一宗欺诈事件! 虽然以前在报章上依稀有印象读过这样的欺诈事件,可是,疼爱孩子的心情让平时还算冷静的我完全陷入了对方所设下的陷阱当中。。。
好!老兄!你听着!你不要把这个电话挂断。你拿你的手机来,还有你的老婆的手机也拿来。不要挂断这个电话!告诉我你的手机号码还有你老婆的手机号码。。。
我十分 镇定地照着对方的指示办事。
叫你老婆关上她的手机,不准开机!我现在要利用你的手机和你通话,不要挂断这个电话!
我感觉到不远处有人正在监视着我的一举一动。我连忙指示太太关掉手机,接着我的手机响起,荧幕显示:无来电显示
我赶忙接通手机,右手还握着家里的电话。
老兄!很好!我现在问你,你的手机电力充足吗?手机一端传来刚才那个男人的声音,而家里电话的 另一端则隐隐听到沙沙的声音。
我刚充电。电力满满的。 我像一个没有思考能力的傀儡。
好!老兄!不要挂断刚才的电话。叫你的老婆不要开启她的手机。你的手机也不要关掉。我们一直利用手机保持通话。
你现在准备好你的银行存折,你的身份证,一张纸,一支笔。去CIMB银行要多久?
“15
分钟。
好,我给你 15分钟。你现在和你太太出门。不要关掉电话!我会不时和你通话。到了银行就对着电话说,表弟,我到银行了!
我外表冷静的但内心慌乱无助地带着吓得发抖的太太走向停车场。我不敢利用电梯,害怕电话线路断去,再也无法和对方通话,害怕这一辈子再也看不到我的可怜的孩子。。。
我真的没有选择的余地。
报警吗?我真的对我国的警方没有信心。
向其他人求救吗?我 原本有想,可是考量到时间的因素,我只好作罢。我必须争取时间把孩子救出来!不然,如果孩子发生什么三长两短,我这一辈子肯定不能安心渡过的。。。
老兄!你怎么把家里的电话关上了!我紧贴在耳朵旁的手机里传来愤怒的声音。
原来我太太在慌乱中把电话关掉了。我连忙道歉。我只能道歉,还能做什么?我不敢惹怒这些没有良心的歹徒呵!
我不能因为自己的一个疏忽而造成一生难以磨灭的伤痛呵!
对方显然不是很在意家里电话被挂断的事,只是一直催我快点开车。
我怀着不安的心情,却又要强作镇定地开动汽车。太太坐在旁边座位,还是很慌乱。不过,我看到了她从手提袋里掏出另外一台手机,那是她的第二台手机。几星期前我帮她申请转台,从明讯转来Digi。她暗示着要打电话给学校老师。我 有一个学生在孩子的学校教书。我点头示可,刻意调高汽车光碟播放器的音响。
我的手机另一端是一片沉静。
我紧张地一面开车一面看着太太在低声和学校老师通电话。
我看到太太的眼泪从眼眶涌了出来!
孩子安全在学校!
真的?我还是不大肯相信!刚才明明亲耳听到孩子哭泣求救的声音啊?!
我和太太决定直接到孩子的学校去。
我们要真真实实地拥抱孩子后才会接受孩子安全无事的事实!这是没有当父母的人无法理解的心理!
孩子是父母身上切割下来的血和肉!
孩子是父母一生最大的牵挂!
我当时其实很矛盾。我真的急着想要看到孩子安全在学校,可是又担心太太和老师通电时听错了。。。如果孩子真的在对方手上,而我则去了学校,拖延了时间,孩子会怎样呢?
但是看到太太急着要去 学校看孩子的表情,我还是直接把车快速开向学校。
幸好学校就离开家不远。我一直都反对为了让孩子进名校而把孩子送到老远的学校就读。
来到学校,太太急着下车,我也熄掉引擎,想和她一起冲进学校看孩子。
太太忽然提醒我,千万不要被对方发现我熄引擎下车却不去银行的举动。那种被人监视的感觉忽然涌了上来。我重新启动引擎,还好电话另一端没有反应。
我看着太太哭着跑进校园,一时不知道接下来该做什么。。。
去银行吗?我真的还要去银行吗?这分明是一宗电话骗局!
可是,我敢确定孩子真的安全在学校吗?我还没有真正把孩子拥抱在怀里,真真实实地摸到孩子的身体呵!
万一。。。万一。。。
忽然,一股 豁出去了的感觉冒上心头。
警局就在不远处。我不假思索地开车向警局 驶去。
我的双手又开始不听使唤地抖了起来。是害怕吗?是兴奋吗?
真糟糕!警局里没有一个地方可以停车!我急了!
这时,电话里传来那人的声音,老兄!这么久还没到银行呵?
要到了!要到了!再给我 5分钟! 我被吓了一跳,急忙撒了个谎。
我不理那么多了,随便找个地方把车泊好,快步冲向报案室。。。
警局里头有 56个警员,两个女的。
我把电话从耳朵旁移开,用手掌盖着电话,向警员简单讲述事发经过,害怕我的谈话被歹徒听见。
警员看着慌乱的我,指示我坐下,不要紧张。
我能不紧张吗?孩子是我的心肝宝贝呵!
坐在电脑案前的女警员开口对她的同僚说,“Serupa punya kes! Tadi baru sahaja satu report! Ini kes keempatlah!”
我疑惑了,但又似乎有了点头绪。
这是骗局?
我是今天的第四个受害者?
真的吗?我开始有了信心!
这时我自然地把电话贴近耳朵,里边也这么巧的传来男人的声音,你到银行了没有?
我到警察局了!我忽然不知道从哪儿来的勇气,很大声地向对方呛声!
你来跟警察说说话。。。 我有点发泄似地继续向对方发出挑衅的言语。
嘟。。。嘟。。。 电话被挂断了!
我看到了青天白云了!哈哈!对方知难而退了?
警员问我要不要报案。
报案?这是公民的责任呵!哪可以不报案?可是。。。我对我国的警方的表现真的。。。真的。。。唉!
我决定不报案!虽然我知道我应该报案,但是报案了又能怎样?
我心里更牵挂的是学校里的孩子啊!我要亲自摸着孩子后才可以真 正安心。
一切恍如在做梦!
警员告诉我,要报案的话可以再倒回来。
我虚伪地向警员说了一些恭维的话,道了谢,急忙离开警局。
我没有忘记看看腕表。下午 130
我开车来到学校,学校一个老师把我迎入办公室,里头好不热闹,有我太太、正、副校长,主任,还有我那位在学校任职的学生,都是认识的。我的阿进不在里头,但是我感到一阵安全感。我知道一切都没事了!
我坐了下来。开始和校长、主任和老师们聊起来。。。
下午138,我的手机又忽然响起,荧幕显示:886 229 570 633
我接通电话,顺便启动扩音器,一阵孩子的哭泣求救声在众人面前清晰响起: 妈妈救我!妈妈为什么你不来救我。。。。



汪锦贵 3/28/2009 04:21:00 上午

Friday, March 27, 2009

两人相处,该做什么??


兩個人在一起有三件事很重要:
溝通
尊重
珍惜

兩個不同生長環境的人要在一起,已經是很困難的事了,而彼此能相互溝通、尊重與珍惜的人更是少之又少。
因為許多人往往都是自私地站在自己的立場去想、去做,以為這就是對方所需要的,以致常常意氣用事,痛了自己也苦了別人。
愛一個人不是給她你要的,因為你要的她不一定要啊 ! 而是要給她「她要的」,這樣才是真正愛她。


◆ 溝通
兩個人一定要會溝通,溝通可不是件容易的事喔~
就連我這個自認是「溝通大師」的都不一定會溝通呢!
我就說「炒蛋事件」好了 ! 我跟我老婆結婚才三個月的時候 ...就發現我不會溝通了!
有一天,我心血來潮突然就跟她 說:「我今晚作一道世界名菜給你吃! 」 平常晚上,我家都是吃三菜一湯。 她一做完兩菜一湯就離開廚房, 說要拭目看我作出什麼世界名菜來給她吃,为了讓她有個驚喜我就拿起三個蛋,打散,唰 ~ 下鍋,加蔥花... ,再加醬油 ~這是最重要的 !!
小時候不是都吃媽媽的醬油炒蛋嗎 ? 這可是含有濃濃的母愛的香味呢!
好啦!? 起鍋~世界名菜--- 「醬油炒蛋」上桌 !
她走出來,一看,「這是什麼 ? 」「蛋啊 ! 炒蛋啊 ~ 」
她是外省人,所以她們從小吃的蛋都是加鹽巴的。
我是本省人,所以都是加醬油的。
「我不要吃 !這不是炒蛋。」
這女人怎麼這麼硬啊?! 醬油炒蛋就不是蛋嗎?分別是少見多怪嘛! 黑蛋當然也是蛋啊~
「不吃就不吃!」 她筷子一摔,還真的就不吃了。 碰 !還甩房門。
自此而後,只要我每次炒蛋,內心、腦袋就開始掙扎...「要加鹽巴 ?還是加醬油 ?我應該要讓她才對... 不對? 」
哼!這一步不能讓!這可是攸關我大男人的面子,
尤其童年的回憶、媽媽的母愛、還有省籍意識在裡面的 ㄋㄟ~怎麼能輕易就讓妳?!
每次上 桌的醬油炒蛋,她就當作沒看到那道菜。 我們就這樣過了五年。 很不可思議吧!
為了個炒蛋吵了五年,但後來突然有一天福至心靈,我終於想通了!
我們跟小朋友玩不是都會讓他嗎 ! 因為他年紀小,不懂事嘛,所以我讓她! 而有時老婆不懂事、幼稚的時候,我又何必認真呢!
有一天我就炒了加鹽巴的蛋上桌了。 唷!我們家的黑蛋怎麼變白蛋啦?
就沒聽過黑人會變白人的,我們家的黑蛋竟然也會變白蛋呀!」 我這時啥也沒說,只嘿嘿乾笑了兩聲。 可是,你知道嗎?過兩天,換我在桌上看見黑蛋了。她炒的。

所以,愛一個人不是要給她你要的,你要的她不一定要啊 !
而是要給她「她要的」 ! 切記。 要把對方的需要當作你的責任,這樣才是真正愛她。


◆ 尊重
男生在發展關係的同時能尊重對方的意願, 能把主控權交給女生的才是好男生
艾斯德講的是「兩個人在一起要學會尊重彼此的任何決定」。 意見不合可以溝通,因為無論從人權、人性來說,男女生都是站在平等地位上的。
我告訴朋友 --- 尊重,是最重要的 !
如果他 (她 )會尊重你,意即什麼都好,都是能商量的。
會把你放在平等地位上看待的這男生或女生就不會糟到哪裡去。


◆ 珍惜
我們要珍惜每一段關係。
假設你還能活60 年好了 !
等你60年後,快死之前,請你拿起一隻筆和一張紙, 想一想,寫下你這一生中「真正愛過」的10個人。
爸媽兄弟姊妹都可以,是真正愛過的喔 ! 那種只愛三個禮拜的不算是真愛。 能寫到超過是最好,不到10 個也沒關係。
我現在想,我就好像寫不來10 個呢! 我是不是真正愛我方爸媽都不太確定。因為你真正愛一個人會一年只見他三次面嗎? 不會吧!一定是巴不得 每天都能看到他 ( 她 )的是吧!
可是現在都有自己的家庭了,所以一年大概也只回去三次而已。
紙翻過來再寫,這一生中「真正愛過你」的10個人,
如果你真能寫到 10 個那你可真的很幸運很幸福了 !!

還有一個小故事! 大意是 說一個即將升職的男人,
因為她老婆突然罹患老年癡呆症,朋友們都建議他把老婆送到醫院治療兼療養。 他考慮了一星期後遞出了辭呈。 朋友們都很驚訝、錯愕,紛紛詢問他為什麼要放棄升遷的機會呢? 他的人生就將要達到最高峰了啊!
他說:
「我只想到我曾在神前面承諾過,不論她貧窮、疾病、變老、變醜、我要愛她、照顧她一輩子。」

「好東西要跟大家分享
生命就該浪費在美好的事物上,
當你遇見美好的事物時所要做的事,
就是把它分享給你四周的人;
這樣,美好的事物才能在這個世界上
自由自在的散播開來 ....(.^_^.) 」

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Avoid Drinking Fresh Sugar Cane Juice

This was sent by a friend whose father is working with the Ministry of the Environment in S'pore.

Health News - About Sugar Cane Drinks
A friend whose father works for the government health inspection passed on his info. Their job is to inspect all hawkers, their cooked food, their store hygiene, etc. They found sugar cane juice has the highest content of bacteria among all food. In fact, it has exceeded the set limit.

Hence, these guys had to find out why. They went round all sugar cane stores and watched the way the hawkers handled their sugar cane, wash their glasses, their entire procedure. But they couldn't find the problem.

One day, they stayed till closing time and discovered some shocking facts! Whenever, the hawkers closed their stores, they would wash the floor with detergent.. As we know, the remaining sugar canes will be placed at the back of the store, vertically standing and as sugar canes are very porous, they tend to absorb whatever liquid around them. Besides the soapy water, the dirt on hawkers' boots, cats' urine, etc, will all be absorbed. Now, whenever I eat at a hawker centre, I would warn all my friends about this and of course I stopped drinking my favorite sugar cane juice.

A friend, who loved sugar cane juice, was pregnant. She was always drinking sugar cane juice. Anyway, one day she miscarried and the fetus was already like 6 or 7 months old, I think. When the doctors did an autopsy to find out why all of a sudden the fetus had died inside her, they found traces of some chemical substance, which was found in cat urine. Large traces of it.

While it would not be able to harm adults, it was extremely toxic to babies, what more a fetus?
So they tried to determine how this cat urine thing could have ended up in the fetus. This meant that it had to be digested by the mother, right? And the only logical conclusion they could come up with was that since these sugar cane juice stall holders just leave the canes lying around on the wet and dirty floor, it would not be impossible to think that stray cats could have peed on those sugar canes or near those sugar canes. So think carefully the next time you order that favorite sugar cane juice!

Please pass this on to everyone you know in S'pore & M'sia. Let's take action to make this world a better & safer place for all of us & the generations to come.

To begin the great BRAIN tune up

Supercharge Your Brain

Here are some things you can begin doing as soon as today to begin the great brain tune up:

Eat Almonds
Almond is believed to improve memory. If a combination of almond oil and milk is taken together before going to bed or after getting up at morning, it strengthens our memory power. Almond milk is prepared by crushing the almonds without the outer cover and adding water and sugar to it.

Drink Apple Juice
Research from the University of Massachusetts Lowell (UML) indicates that apple juice increases the production of the essential neurotransmitter acetylcholine in the brain, resulting in an increased memory power.

Sleep well
Research indicates that the long-term memory is consolidated during sleep by replaying the images of the experiences of the day. These repeated playbacks program the subconscious mind to store these images and other related information.

Enjoy simple Pleasures
Stress drains our brainpower. A stress-ridden mind consumes much of our memory resources to leave us with a feeble mind. Make a habit to engage yourself in few simple pleasures everyday to dissolve stress from your mind. Some of these simple pleasures are good for your mind, body and soul.
-Enjoy music you love
-Play with your children
-Appreciate others
-Run few miles a day, bike or swim
-Start a blog
-Take a yoga class or Total Wellness routine

Exercise your mind
Just as physical exercise is essential for a strong body, mental exercise is equally essential for a sharp and agile mind. Have you noticed that children have far superior brainpower than an adult does? Children have playful minds. A playful mind exhibits superior memory power. Engage in some of the activities that require your mind to remain active and playful.
-Play scrabble or crossword puzzle
-Volunteer
-Interact with others
-Start a new hobby such as blogging, reading, pai nting, bird watching
-Learn new skill or a foreign language

Practice Yoga or Meditation
Yoga or Meditation relives stress. Stress is a known memory buster. With less stress, lower blood pressure, slower respiration, slower metabolism, and released muscle tension follows. All of these factors contribute significantly towards increases in our brainpower.

Reduce Sugar intake
Sugar is a non-food. It’s a form of carbohydrate that offers illusionary energy, only to cause a downhill slump once the initial burst has been worn off. Excess intake of sugar results in neurotic symptoms. Excess sugar is known to cause claustrophobia, memory loss and other neurotic disorders. Eat food without adding sugar. Stay away from sweet drinks or excess consumption of caffeine with sugar.

Eat whole wheat
The whole wheat germs contain lecithin. Lecithin helps ease the problem of the hardening of the arteries, which often impairs brain functioning.

Eat a light meal at night
A heavy meal at night causes tossing and turning and a prolonged emotional stress while at sleep. It’s wise to eat heavy meal during the day when our body is in motion to consume the heavy in-take. Eating a light meal with some fruits allows us to sleep well. A good night sleep strengthens our brainpower.

Develop imagination
Greeks mastered the principle of imagination and association to memorize everything. This technique requires one to develop a vivid and colorful imagination that can be linked to a known object. If you involve all your senses - touching, feeling, smelling, hearing and seeing in the imagination process, you can remember greater details of the event.

Control your temper
Bleached food, excess of starch or excess of white bread can lead to nerve grating effect. This results in a violent and some time depressive behavior. Eat fresh vegetables. Drink lots of water and meditate or practice yoga to relieve these toxic emotions of temper and stressful mood swings.

Take Vitamin B-complex
Vitamin B-complex strengthens memory power. Eat food and vegetables high in Vitamin B-complex. Stay away from the starch food or white bread, which depletes the Vitamin B-complex necessary for a healthy mind.

By:Shilpan Patel of Success Soul








香蕉成熟时

原來熟透的香蕉 . 產生攻擊異常細胞的物質 TNF

您可能會發現不久的將來 ........ 香蕉會缺貨 !!

香蕉愈成熟即表皮上黑斑愈多,它的免疫活性也就愈高。

日本人愛吃香蕉不是沒原因的, 大、小朋友們都喜歡吃香蕉 ~ 真方便,每日五蔬果,疾病遠離我喔........

根據日本科學家的研究發現,香蕉中具有抗癌作用的物質 TNF


而且,香蕉愈成熟其抗癌效果愈高。日本東京大學教授山崎正利利用動物試驗,比較了香蕉、葡萄、蘋果、西瓜、菠蘿、梨子、柿子等多種水果的免疫活性,結果證實其中以香蕉的效果最好,能夠增加白血球,改善免疫系統的功能,還會產生攻擊異常細胞的物質 TNF

山崎教授的試驗也發現,香蕉愈成熟即表皮上黑斑愈多,它的免疫活性也就愈高。所以從現在開始要吃熟一點的香蕉唷!
香蕉不會使白血球盲目增長只有在數量少的時候才會大幅度增加。 因此,專家們研究認為,香蕉具有的免疫激活作用比較溫和 , 在人體狀態健康時並不會使免疫力異常升高 . 但對病人、老人和抵抗力差的體弱者則很有效果。

因此,在日常生活中,我們不妨每天吃1~2根香蕉,透過提升身體的抗病能力來預防感染,特別是預防感冒和流感等病毒的侵襲。
山崎教授指出,在黃色表皮上出現黑色斑點的香蕉,其增加白血球的能力
.......... 要比表皮發青綠的香蕉強8倍。











癌細胞最愛吃用微波爐煮熱的食物

住在美國加州 擔任『藥劑師』已近30年的親人 Amy Huang 傳過來的重要保健資訊。希望有助諸位親朋好友及同事們的身體健康。

請您一定要看:

癌細胞最愛吃『用微波爐煮熱的食物』,然後,癌細胞就開始吃『您的身體』啦!

如果您用『微波爐煮熱的食物』把癌細胞養得肥肥壯壯的,保證癌細胞會很高興吃,但不會說謝謝。而且,連您的身體也會一起吃掉。也許還可以讓您散盡家產及痛不欲生,而罵它忘恩負義。當然,它會說:是您自作自受,活該啦!

所以呢…….
~~ 為了自己的健康,請詳細閱讀以下的說明 ~~


以下的內容摘錄自 '疾病的形成與防範'一書,作者為洪山本 博士


有個很有意思的比喻,或者可比擬這個情況,當你將一隻青蛙放上一個開著大火的熱鍋時,牠會立刻跳走,但如果你用一根蠟燭慢慢燃燒加溫,剛開始時,青蛙並不覺得有任何燙感,但逐漸的等到牠覺得熱了,想跳走時牠的腳已被熱鍋黏住了,再也無法跳走。

微波爐就像那根蠟燭,使用它的人就像那隻青蛙,什麼時候會被黏住,或許是十或二十年之後,但遲早有可能被黏住。

在醫院中輸血, 需將從冰箱拿出的血加以溫熱才可輸入人體 ,曾有護士為了急救病人節省時間,使用微波爐加溫血液,一輸入體後病人立即死亡,以後醫院中嚴格規定,絕不可用微波爐去溫熱血液。

專門調給嬰兒服用的奶粉, 盒上說明文字,明白寫出絕不可用微波爐去煮熱 ,因為它會破壞所有的營養。

有關微波爐所引起的各式傷害 ,蘇聯人作了許多研究,例如:

(a) 肉類微波後 會產生一種致癌物d-NitroSodienthanolanines。
(b) 微波過的牛奶、水果、麥片,會將其中的氨基酸轉化為致癌物。
(c) 蔬菜微波後,會將植物生物鹼(Plant Alkaloids)轉化成致癌物。


首先令我們好奇的是何以微波爐有害?倘若有害,為什麼政府不回收呢?何以政府不制止它的使用?
乃因它所造成的傷害,不是短時間內立即可看到可能是在二十年以後才顯現出來,除非有專業研究員,在實驗室作實驗來證實。而在美國,一切研究以利益為前導,對無利可圖的事,是沒有人去作研究的。

比較上,在英國社會學系都是最優秀的精英分子,稍次者才去當工程師,由於當政者資歷背景的差異,在美國為公眾利益而不求牟利的研究,是無法和其他一些國家比擬的。

根據蘇聯、德國、瑞士等國家所作對對微波爐的研究,發現有許多負面的結論:
(01) 它破壞腦組織。 腦的傳播是靠磁波,微波爐處理過的食物,如長期食用,會中和腦磁波,使腦退化,磁波短路,此為長期副作用。& nbsp;
(02) 微波爐食物,除了有致癌物之外,它還產生一堆不能為身體所吸收利用的不知名副產品。
(03) 長期食用微波爐食物,使男女荷爾蒙分泌量減低或改變。
(04) 微波爐食物的副產品,是長期而永久性的殘存於人體內。
(05) 食物中礦物質,維生素及營養大量減少,或改變成致癌物,以及許多不能為身體所分解的合成物。
(06) 微波爐烹煮的食物,使蔬菜中的礦物質,改變成會破壞人體的自由基。
(07) 微波爐食物能引起胃癌,有些胃癌及腸癌,皆與吃太多微波爐食物有關。
這或許解釋了何以美國人近些年來,患直腸癌的比例如此迅速增加。
(08) 長期吃微波爐食物,易使身體產生大量癌細胞。
(09) 長期攝取微波爐食物,由於其中營養已被破壞,將使身體免疫系統出問題。
(10) 這樣的食物,終將使記憶退化,精神不集中,情緒不穩定,且理解力降低。

您怎麼辦呢?
不要用『微波爐加熱或烹煮的食物』,才是最佳妙方!


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Amazing Way to Keep Vegie & Fruits Fresh for Weeks

AN INDONESIAN MAID SHARED WITH ME A WEEK AGO A WAY TO PRESERVE FRUITS AND VEGETABLES WHICH SHE LEARNED FROM A FAMILY WHEN SHE BABY-SAT FOR THEM. THAT FAMILY WAS USING "ALUMINUM COATED PLASTIC BAGS" TO KEEP THEIR FRUITS AND VEGETABLES FRESH FOR WEEKS!!! ITS SO AMAZING.

I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO SAVE SOME UNWANTED RESOURCE WHICH MOST PEOPLE WOULD THROW AWAY WITHOUT ANY 2ND THOUGHT AND HERE I AM SHARING WITH YOU THE USEFULNESS OF THIS UNWANTED RESOURCE.

HERE IS THE TYPE OF ALUMINIUM COATED PLASTIC BAG FROM QUAKER. YOU CAN USE ANY OTHER TYPE AS WELL AS LONG AS IT HAS THE SAME TYPE OF MATERIAL.

YOU CAN PUT PLENTY OF FRUITS AND/OR VEGETABLES IN IT..

LOOK.....AFTER 1 WEEK.....THE VEGETABLES ARE STILL FRESH! AMAZING, ISN'T IT??? NO DEHYDRATION AT ALL.

LOOK AT THE OCRAS. THEY ARE STILL VERY, VERY FRESH WITHOUT ANY DEHYDRATION AT ALL.

BUT DON'T FOLD OR SEAL THE OPENING OF THE BAG. JUST LEAVE THE BAG OPEN AND IT WILL DO THE MAGIC WORK FOR YOU ALREADY. .....TRY IT OUT.....

YOU WOULD SURE LIKE IT VERY MUCH TOO.

INSTEAD OF THROWING THESE USEFUL THINGS AWAY, RE-USE IT AGAIN AND YOU WILL BE INHERENTLY JOINING THE GROUP OF "SAVING THE MOTHER-EARTH" CAMPAIGN TOO.

Proper Way to use medical card

In cases of Emergency, a matter of LIFE & DEATH (eg Heart-attack, Strokes, Accidents)
NEVER.. NEVER.. NEVER use a medical card!
Why?....

1. In the emergency room, you will be asked to register and make a 'Deposit' BEFORE the patient is TREATED!
2. When you show the medical card....the doctor MUST complete the claim form and fax to the insurance company BEFORE they can treat the patient. The hospital MUST wait until the insurance company Confirms coverage & limit of policy.
3. ALL these procedures may take 1-2 HOURS!! By this time the patient may have lapsed into a coma!!
4. Use your credit card or Cash FIRST.
AFTER the patient has been treated & attended by the doctor, then show the admission counter nurse the medical card. She will then liaise with the insurance company directly for the approvals. She will tear the earlier credit card deposit once the insurance company has approved.
5. By now the patient would have been wheeled into the room to rest or to the surgery room for immediate surgery.

Sincerely we pray no one has to go through such an ordeal.






Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Aging gracefully: aging of the various parts of the body

The 4 stages of LIFE

A story of our body anatomy! Interesting article and it is worth reading!
There's no denying the ticking of a woman's biological clock - but men are not immune, either. Here, with the help of leading clinicians, Angela Epstein identifies the ages when different parts of the body start to lose their battle with time.

• BRAIN Starts ageing at 20
As we get older, the number of nerve cells - or neurons - in the brain decrease. We start with around 100 billion, but in our 20s this number starts to decline.
By 40, we could be losing up to 10,000 per day, affecting memory, co-ordination and brain function. In fact, while the neurons are important, it's actually the deterioration of the gaps between the brain cells that has the biggest impact, says Dr Wojtek Rakowicz, a consultant neurologist at Imperial College Healthcare NHS Trust in London .
We all assume grey hair and wrinkles are the first signs of ageing, but some parts of your body are worn out long before you look old.
These tiny gaps between the end of one brain nerve cell and another are called synapses. Their job is to ensure the flow of information from one cell to another, and as we age we make fewer.

• LUNGS Start ageing at 20

Lung capacity slowly starts to decrease from the age of 20.
By the age of 40, some people are already experiencing breathlessness. This is partly because the muscles and the rib cage which control breathing stiffen up. It's then harder to work the lungs and also means some air remains in the lungs after breathing out - causing breathlessness.
Aged 30, the average man can inhale two pints of air in one breath. By 70, it's down to one.

• MUSCLES Start ageing at 30
Muscle is constantly being built up and broken down, a process which is well balanced in young adults.
However, by the time we're 30, breakdown is greater than buildup, explains Professor Robert Moots.
Once adults reach 40, they start to lose between 0.5 and 2 per cent of their muscle each year. Regular exercise can help prevent this..

• HEARING Starts ageing mid-50s
More than half of people over 60 lose hearing because of their age, according to the Royal National Institute for the Deaf.
The condition, known as presbycusis, happens due to a loss of 'hair cells' - tiny sensory cells in the inner ear which pick up sound vibrations and send them to the brain.

• SKIN Starts ageing mid-20s
The skin starts to age naturally in your mid-20s. According to Dr Andrew Wright, a consultant dermatologist with
Bradford NHS Trust, as we get older production of collagen - the protein which acts as scaffolding to the skin - slows, and elastin, the substance that enables skin to snap back into place, has less spring and can even break.
Dead skin cells don't shed as quickly and turnover of new skin cells may decrease slightly. This causes fine wrinkles and thin, transparent skin - even if the first signs may not appear until our mid-30s (unless accelerated by smoking or sun damage).

• BREASTS start ageing at 35
BY their mid-30s, women's breasts start losing tissue and fat, reducing size and fullness. Sagging starts properly at 40 and the areola (the area surrounding the nipple) can shrink considerably. Although breast cancer risk increases with age, it's not related to physical changes in the breast.
More likely, says Gareth Evans, breast cancer specialist at St Mary's Hospital, Manchester , our cells become damaged with age - as a result, the genes which control cell growth can mutate, causing cancer.


• FERTILITY starts ageing at 35
Female fertility begins to decline after 35, as the number and quality of eggs in the ovaries start to fall.
The lining of the womb may become thinner, making it less likely for a fertilised egg to take, and also creating an environment hostile to sperm.
Male fertility also starts to drop around this age. Men who wait until their 40s before starting a family have a greater chance of their partner having a miscarriage, because of the poorer quality of their sperm.
French doctors have found that the quality of sperm starts to deteriorate by 35, so that by the time a man is 45, a third of pregnancies end in miscarriage.

• HAIR Starts ageing at 30
Male hair loss usually begins in the 30s. Hair is made in tiny pouches just under the skin's surface, known as follices.
A hair normally grows from each follicle for about three years, is then shed, and a new hair grows.

However, with male-pattern baldness, changes in levels of testosterone from their early-30s affect this cycle, causing the hair follicles to shrink.
Each new hair is thinner than the previous one.. Eventually, all that remains is a much smaller hair follicle and a thin stump of hair that does not grow out to the skin surface.
Most people will have some grey hair by the age of 35. When we are young, our hair is coloured by the pigments produced by cells in the hair follicle known as melanocytes.
As we grow older, melanocytes become less active, so less pigment is produced, the colour fades, and grey hairs grow instead.


• BONES Start ageing at 35

'Throughout our life, old bone is broken down by cells called osteoclasts and replaced by bone-building cells called osteoblasts - a process called bone turnover,' explains Robert Moots, professor of rheumatology at Aintree University Hospital in Liverpool .
Children's bone growth is rapid - the skeleton takes just two years to renew itself completely. In adults, this can take ten years.
Until our mid-20s, bone density is still increasing. But at 35 bone loss begins as part of the natural ageing process.
This becomes more rapid in post-menopausal women and can cause the bone-thinning condition osteoporosis.
The shrinking in size and density of bones can lead to loss of height.
Bones in the back shrivel up or crumble between the vertebrae. We lose two inches in height by the time we're 80.

• TEETH Start ageing at 40
As we age, we produce less saliva, which washes away bacteria, so teeth and gums are more vulnerable to decay.
Receding gums - when tissue is lost from gums around the teeth - is common in adults over 40.

• EYES start ageing at 40
Glasses are the norm for many over - 40s as failing eyesight kicks in - usually long-sightedness, affecting our ability to see objects up close.
As we age, the eye's ability to focus deteriorates because the eyes' muscles become weaker, says Andrew Lotery, professor of ophthalmology at the University of Southampton .


• HEART Starts ageing at 40
The heart pumps blood less effectively around the body as we get older. This is because blood vessels become less elastic, while arteries can harden or become blocked because of fatty deposits forming on the coronary arteries - caused by eating too much saturated fat.
The blood supply to the heart is then reduced, resulting in painful angina. Men over 45 and women over 55 are at greater risk of a heart attack.
A recent study by Lloyds Pharmacy found the average person in the UK has a 'heart age' five years older than their chronological age, probably due to obesity and lack of exercise.


• KIDNEYS Starts ageing at 50
With kidneys, the number of filtering units (nephrons) that remove waste from the bloodstream starts to reduce in middle age. One effect of this is their inability to turn off urine production at night, causing frequent trips to the bathroom.
The kidneys of a 75-year-old person will filter only half the amount of blood that a 30-year-old's will.


• PROSTATE Starts ageing at 50
The prostate often becomes enlarged with age, leading to problems such as increased need to urinate, says Professor Roger Kirby, director of the Prostate Centre in London . This is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia and affects half of men over 50, but rarely those under 40.
It occurs when the prostate absorbs large amounts of the male sex hormone testosterone, which increases the growth of cells in the prostate.
A normal prostate is the size of a walnut, but the condition can increase this to the size of a tangerine.


• GUT Starts ageing at 55
A healthy gut has a good balance between harmful and 'friendly' bacteria. But levels of friendly bacteria in the gut drop significantly after 55, particularly in the large intestine, says Tom MacDonald, professor of immunology at Barts And The London medical school. As a result, we suffer from poor digestion and an increased risk of gut disease.


Constipation is more likely as we age, as the flow of digestive juices from the stomach, liver, pancreas and small intestine slows down.

• TASTE AND SMELL Start ageing at 60
We start out in life with about 10,000 taste buds scattered on the tongue. This number can halve later in life.
After we turn 60, taste and smell gradually decline, partly as a result of the normal ageing process.
This can be accelerated by problems such as polyps in the nasal or sinus cavities. It can also be the cumulative effect of years of smoking.

• BLADDER Starts ageing at 65

Loss of bladder control is more likely when you hit 65. The bladder starts to contract suddenly, even when it's not full. Women are more vulnerable to bladder problems as, after the menopause, declining oestrogen levels make tissues in the urethra - the tube through which urine passes - thinner and weaker, reducing bladder support.
Bladder capacity in an older adult generally is about half that of a younger person - about two cups in a 30-year-old and one cup in a 70-year-old.
This causes more frequent trips to the loo, particularly as poor muscle tone means the bladder may not fully empty. This in turn can lead to urinary tract infections.

• VOICE Starts ageing at 65
Our voices become quieter and hoarser with age. The soft tissues in the voice box (larynx) weaken, affecting the pitch, loudness and quality of the voice.
A woman's voice may become huskier and lower in pitch, whereas a man's might become thinner and higher.

• LIVER Starts ageing at 70
This is the only organ in the body which seems to defy the aging process. 'Its cells have an extraordinary capacity to regenerate,' explain David Lloyd, a consultant liver surgeon at Leicester Royal Infirmary.
He says he can remove half a liver during surgery and it will grow to the size of a complete liver within three months.
If a donor doesn't drink, use drug or suffer from infection, then it is possible to transplant a 70-year-old liver into a 20-year-old.


When your body really starts going downhill, aging gracefully!!


TAKING A WOMAN TO BED

What is the difference between girls/woman aged : 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, 58, 68, and 78 ?


At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.







At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.

At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.
At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.
At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid going to bed.
At 58 -- You stay in bed to avoid her story.

At 68 -- If you take her to bed, that'll be a story!
At 78 -- What story??? What bed??? Who the hell are you???

说: "我爱你"


5岁的时候,我说我爱你。你歪着脑袋,眨着水晶般的大眼睛,疑惑地问我:“什么意思呀?”

15岁的时候,我说:"我爱你".你的脸红得像火烧云,头深深地低着,摆弄著衣襟,你好像在笑。

20岁的时候,我说我爱你,你把头靠在我的肩上,紧紧地挽住我的手臂,像是下一秒我就要消失一样。

25岁的时候,我说我爱你,你把早餐放在桌上,跑过来刮了一下我的鼻子说:“知道了!懒虫,该起床了!

30岁的时候,我说我爱你,你笑着说:“你呀!要是真的爱我,就别下了班到处跑,还有,别再忘了我叫你买的菜!”

40岁的时候,我说我爱你,你边收拾碗筷边无表情的嘟囔着: “行了,行了,快去帮孩子复习功课去吧!”

50岁的时候,我说我爱你,你打着毛线头也不抬:“真的?你心里是不是巴不得我早点儿死掉。” 然后就咯咯咯地笑个不停。

60岁的时候,我说我爱你,你笑着捶了我一拳: "死老头子!孙子都这么大了,还贫嘴!

70岁的时候,我们坐在摇椅上,戴着老花镜,欣赏着50年前我给你的情书,我们已经布满皱纹的手又握在了一起,那时侯我说我爱你,你深情地望着我,你那已经皱纹满面的脸仍是那么美丽…… 炉子上的开水咕嘟咕嘟地冒烟, 温馨的暖意充满了整个屋子......

80岁的时候,你说你爱我。我什么也没说,因为我流泪了,但是那是我人生最最快乐的日子,因为你终于说出了那句“我--爱--你"。

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

誠信漂流記

誠信漂流記 (大陸高考滿分作文)

說誠信被那個「聰明」的年輕人投棄到水裡以後,他拼命地游著,最後來到了一個
小島上。「誠信」就躺在沙灘上休息,心裡計劃著等待哪位路過的朋友允許他搭船,
救他一命。 突然,「誠信」聽到遠處傳來一陣陣歡樂輕鬆的音樂。他於是馬上站起
來,向著音樂傳來的方向望去,他看見一隻小船正向這邊駛來。船上有面小旗,上面
寫著「快樂」二字,原來是快樂的小船。

「誠信」忙喊道:「快樂快樂,我是誠信,你拉我回岸可以嗎?」.「快樂」一聽,笑
著對「誠信」說:「不行不行,我一有了誠信就不快樂了,你看這社會上有多少人因
說實話而不快樂,對不起,我無能為力。」說罷,「快樂」走了。 過了一會兒,「
地位」又來了,誠信忙喊到:「地位地位,我是誠信,我想搭你的船回家可以嗎?」
「地位」忙把船劃遠了,回頭對「誠信」說:「不行不行,誠信可不能搭我的船,我
的地位來之不易啊!有了你這個誠信我豈不倒霉,並且連地位也難以保住啊!」

「誠信」很失望地看著「地位」的背影,眼裡充滿了不解和疑惑,他又接著等。
隨著一片有節奏的卻不和諧的聲音傳來,「競爭」們乘著小船來了,「誠信」喊道:
「競爭,競爭,我能不能搭你的小船一程?」競爭們問道:「你是誰,你能給我們多
少好處?」
「誠信」不想說,怕說了又沒人理,但「誠信」畢竟是誠信,他說:「我是誠信」
「你是誠信啊,你這不是純心給我們添麻煩嗎?如今競爭這麼激烈,我們『不正當競
爭』怎麼 敢要你誠信?」言罷,揚長而去。
正當誠信感到近乎絕望的時候,一個慈祥的聲音從遠處傳來:「孩子,上船吧!」一
個白髮蒼蒼的老者在船上掌著舵道:「我是時間老人。」
「那您為什麼要救我呢?」

老人微笑著說:「只有時間才知道誠信有多麼重要!」
在回去的路上,時間老人指著因翻船而落水的「快樂」、「地位」、「競爭」,意味
深長地說道:「沒有誠信,快樂不長久,地位是虛假的,競爭也是失敗的!




It is called Mindset !!

As my friend was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from the ropes they were tied to but for some reason, they did not. My friend saw a trainer nearby and asked why these beautiful, magnificent animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.

"Well," he said, "when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it's enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free." My friend was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn't, they were stuck right where they were.

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? So make an attempt to grow further.... Why shouldn't we try it again?

"YOUR ATTEMPT MAY FAIL, BUT NEVER FAIL TO MAKE AN ATTEMPT."








Hard Boiled Eggs

Cooking hard boiled eggs can be a hassle because you have to "kor hui" (jaga api) or "kor chui" (jaga air).

Try this special method of cooking the eggs whereby you don't have to worry whether they are over-cooked or under-cooked. Wahlau, it's so easy la!

1) Place two pieces of tissue paper inside the rice cooker and sprinkle them with water.
2) Put in the eggs.
3) Close the lid and press "Cook" button.










4) Wait till the button jumps up. When it does, TURN OFF THE ELECTRICITY POWER. Do not leave them too long inside the rice cooker after cooked ...only do so if you prefer a harder egg yolk.

5) The eggs are ready.










The speed is faster than using ordinary boiling method. This is because the water sprinkled on the tissue will turn into steam and compressed inside the rice cooker to cook the eggs.

You can peel the egg shells off very easily. The egg yolks will turn out just nice, not too dry. And the best part is you don't have to do any washing nor cleaning at all.


TRY IT OUT AND YOU'LL LOVE IT !!!

婚前婚后

以前提到結婚,想到「天長地久」;現在提到結婚,想到「能撐多久」。

當初會結婚,說是「看上眼」;後來會離婚,說是「看走眼」。
婚前,愛情是「神話」;婚後,愛情是「笑話」。

男人花錢,是為了讓女人「高興」;女人花錢,是因為男人讓她「不高興」。

嫁入「豪門」,要懂得理財;嫁入「寒門」,要懂得生財。

以前的人,視婚姻生活為「一輩子」;現代的人,視婚姻生活為「一陣子」。

婚前,男人在「餐廳」等女人;婚後,女人在「客廳」等男人。

婚前,男人經常找女人「討論」;婚後,男人只告訴女人「結論」。

婚前,男人對她「悄悄」講話;婚後,男人對她「大聲」講話。

戀愛時,「情話綿綿」;結婚後,「謊話連連」。

戀愛時的男人,喜歡「毛手毛腳」;結婚後的男人,變成「沒手沒腳」。

婚前,情侶做什麼都是「浪漫」;婚後,夫妻做什麼都是「浪費」。

想結婚,是「自己」已能獨立;想離婚,是「子女」已獨立。

婚前的男人,大都很「幽默」;婚後的男人,大都很「沉默」。

女人的記性,吵架時「最好」;男人的耐性,結婚後「最差」。

戀愛時,一見面就「親嘴」;結婚後,一見面就「鬥嘴」。

婚前,男人常給女人「空白支票」;婚後,男人常給女人「空頭支票」。

戀愛時,生活「妙不可言」;結婚後,日子「苦不堪言」。

婚前,男人天天盯著女人;婚後,女人天天盯著男人。

熱戀時,總相許下輩子「再結良緣」;結婚後,懷疑上輩子「造作孽緣」。

大男人,會「作威作福」;好男人,會「作牛作馬」。

婚前,「謊話」都是「情話」;婚後,「情話」都是「廢話」。

婚前,「靠近」一點;婚後,「閃開」一點。

婚前,「沒話找話說」;婚後,「有話也不說」。

成功」對男人的定義是指能「」很多的錢,對女人的定義是指能「」很多的錢。

男人有錢就變壞,女人變壞就有錢。

男人沒有女人,「耳根清淨」;女人沒有男人,「家居乾淨」。

男人 [入錯行],上班會很痛苦;女人「嫁錯郎, 下班會很痛苦。

好女人,養壞男人的胃口;壞女人,吊足男人的胃口。

婚前,男人像「傳令兵」;婚後,男人像「指挥官」。

失戀不見得是世界末日:你的心也許會「泣血」,你的荷包卻可以不再「失血」。





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