反社会型人格异常 - 野心家

反社会型人格异常，是病态人格的一种，在精神疾病诊断与统计手册（DSM）中归类于第二轴发育障碍/人格异常的类别B里，而且必须超过18岁才能被诊断为反社会人格。

自心理医学发现此病态人格，近百年来便有林林总总不同医学名词出现，大致为：无罪感（Guiltlessness）、精神病态性人格卑劣（Psychopathic inferiority）、悖德症（Moral insanity）、道德低能（Moral imbecility）。现代则多为用反社会人格（Sociopathy）、精神病态（Psychopathy）等医学名词。而通俗来说，则可用没良心（Conscienceless）这词简易概括。

反社会人格患者在初识时，往往予人聪明、人缘佳的印象，但实际上他们会残酷无情的利用他们身边的人，以达到他们的目的。此种人格倾向常见于狡猾的政客、商人等成功人士之中。他们的社会化不足，因此缺乏对人、社会、团体的认同与忠诚。


临床现象

良心发展不足
他们无法接受或了解道德的价值，严重的缺乏良心谴责，所以不会因不道德行为而焦虑或有罪恶感。他们甚至会轻视那些被他们利用的人。

不负责任和冲动的行为
他们很少为未来长期的利益考量，所以倾向于寻求立即的满足，他们也较难忍受例行性的事物。

善于利用它人
他们看来幽默、乐观、讨人喜欢，容易解除别人的武装。他们似乎对别人的需要和弱点有敏锐的观察力。他们也擅长辩解与说服别人。

无法建立良好的人际关系
虽然他们容易得到他人的友谊，但因为他们的自我中心与不负责任，让他们难以维持一个真正且良好的关系。他们欠缺同情心、感激和悔意。据临床诊断发现有相当大的比例男性反社会人格者有暴力倾向。他们也是不忠实和不负责的伴侣。

成因
对于此病的成因学者仍无定论，有人认为他们生理上的缺陷使得他们难以学得制约反应，也有人认为他们只是善于逃避心中不舒服的感受而已。 另一种看法是，他们可能是在生长过程中，遇到某些原因导致他们对社会失去信任，进而影响到思想上的异常。

治疗和效果
因为反社会人格不像一般心理疾病会有心理上的异常行为，也能正常的生活，所以他们通常不会求助于医院或辅导中心。而已经因为触犯法律而接受监狱的心理治疗，效果也是相当不乐观。一般的治疗方法在他们身上成效不彰，这应该归因于他们本身的欠缺焦虑和罪恶感、无法相信他人、难以学到教训等的人格特质。有趣的是，即使没有接受治疗，许多反社会人格者到了40岁以后会逐渐改善，这或许是因为累积的社会制约所造成的。

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出猫 ：粤语（广东话）读法，是香港人的俚语（slang），非习惯用语，用以表达新鲜事物，或对旧事物赋以新的说法。俚语是粗俗的或通行面极窄的方言词：撒丫子，开瓢儿。 俚语就是百姓在日常生活中总结出来的通俗易懂顺口的具有地方色彩的词语。地域性强，通行面极窄，较生活化。

作弊是一种欺骗或欺诈的行为，可使作弊者不公平地获得优势以达致利己的目的；作弊通常也会牺牲他人的利益。作弊包含对规则的逾越，可被视为一种以小博大的基本经济手段。

在英文中作弊和目前社会上所流行的"诈骗"犯罪行为是同一个字，中文中其意义也是接近的。

noun 诡计;骗局;谋略;花招
恶作剧
轻率愚蠢的行为
作弊手法， (如同没有实力而才违法作弊）

verb 哄骗
伪装打扮
违法
恶作剧;戏弄

adjective 有诀窍的;特技的;魔术的
欺诈的、想尽手段违法的
学生成绩不佳，而作弊的行为

不要熬夜啊

总之, 晚上九点就全部关灯, 大家要好好保重身体。

发生迹象：原本一向身体健康,时常运动(打篮球)但在近日连续熬夜数晚,经过数日后,突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳！一闭眼就想睡觉！(跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同),而且会腰酸背痛,但一到晚上精神又好起来！

别以为这是小事！根据中医的看法,是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调,就是体内器官起内讧,互相打架,最后造成器官衰竭而死。猝死, 过劳死，就是这样的。

医生建议：晚上10：00前最好上床休息,中午尽可能睡半小时到一小时的午觉(午睡一小时抵过晚上睡三小时),年轻人一天至少要睡足八小时！

那些经常半夜不睡觉的人，早点睡啦！

晚上9-11点为免疫系统（淋巴）排毒时间，此段时间应安静或听音乐

晚间11-凌晨1点，肝的排毒，需在熟睡中进行。

凌晨1-3点，胆的排毒，亦同。

凌晨3-5点，肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈，因排毒动作已走到肺；不应用止咳药，以免抑制废积物的排除。

凌晨5-7点，大肠的排毒，应上厕所排便。

凌晨7-9点，小肠大量吸收营养的时段，应吃早餐。疗病者最好早吃，在６点半前，养生者在７点半前，不吃早餐者应改变习惯，即使拖到９、10点吃都比不吃好。

半夜至凌晨４点为脊椎造血时段，必须熟睡，不宜熬夜

Baby Carrots

Baby Carrots you buy in the Supermarkets - Good to Know

The following is information from a farmer who grows and packages Carrots for IGA, METRO, LOBLAWS, etc.

The small cocktail (baby)carrots you buy in small plastic bags are made using the larger crooked or deformed carrots which are put through a machine which cuts and shapesthem into cocktail carrots . most people probably know this already.

What you may not know and should know is the following: once the carrots are cut and shaped into cocktail carrots they are dipped in a solution of water and chlorine in order to preserve them (this is the same chlorine used in your pool)since they do not have their skin or natural protective covering, they give them a higher dose of chlorine.

You will notice that once you keep these carrots in your refrigerator for a few days, a white covering will form on the carrots, this is the chlorine which resurfaces. At what cost do we put our health at risk to have esthetically pleasing vegetables which are practically plastic?

We do hope that this information can be passed on to as many people as possible in the hopes of informing them where these carrots come from and how they are processed.Chlorine is a very well known carcinogen.
Please let us make this information available to as many people as possible. If you care about your family and friends, pass it on.

Check for Alzheimer's

The following was developed as a mental age assessment by the School of Psychiatry at Harvard University . Take your time and see if you can read each line aloud without a mistake.
The average person over 40 years of age cannot do it!

1. This is this cat.
2. This is is cat.
3. This is how cat.
4. This is to cat.
5. This is keep cat.
6. This is an cat.
7. This is old cat.
8. This is person cat.
9. This is busy cat.
10. This is for cat.
11. This is forty cat.
12. This is seconds cat.

Now go back and read the third word in each line from the top down
and I betcha' you cannot resist passing it on!

和另一女人約會 ! Date with second women!

當我看完 After I read
百感交集 I was unbearable with my complex feelings
熱淚盈框,當我們窮於應付生活所需之時When we are busy to sustain our life.
是否也忽略了些什麼 ?! Do we forget or ignore something more important to u.

結婚了廿一年後，我發現了一種別出心裁的方法,可以讓愛的火花永保新鮮。
After get marriaged for twenty-one years, i found an unique way to refresh my love life.

不久以前 ，我和另一位女士約會，其實那還是我妻子的主意，
Not long ago, I was date with a lady, and the idea was came from my wife.

有一天她說：「我知道妳很愛她。」我很驚訝，立刻爭辯說：「但我愛的是妳呀！」「我知道，但你也愛她呀！」
One day my wife said: I know u love her. I was shocked: The one I love is you! She said: I know, but u love her too.

我妻子要我去看的女士是我的母親。The lady that my wife asked me to visit was my mother.
她已經寡居了十九年，然而我忙碌的工作和身為二個孩子父親的責任，令我分身乏術，以致很少有時間和她相聚。
She was alone for ninetwen years, however, I was busy with my job and my children, so I was less likely to visit her.

那晚，我打電話給她，邀約她第二天和我一起吃晚餐和看電影。
The night, i called her, invited her to have a dinner and movie with me at the second day.

「怎麼了，你還好嗎？」她問道。' What happen? Are u alright?', she asked.

母親是那種會認為晚上那麼晚打電話，又突然邀約她，一定不會有什麼好事的人。「我想如果有機會和妳單獨約會，一定很有意思。」我回答。
I answered: I was just thinking that if I have chance to date with u alone, it sure be very interesting.

她想了一會兒，然後說：「我非常樂意。」After a while, she said: I do.

那個星期五下班以後，我開車去接她時，心裡有一點緊張,
The Friday after i worked, I fetched her at her home, felt like a little bit nervous.

因為從未嚐試過這樣的約會。Because I had never to date with my mom before.

當我到達她家時，我看她對這樣的約會，似乎也有一點緊張。
When I reached her house, I found that she seems a little bit nervous too.

她在門內等著，身上穿著大衣，裡面那件禮服還是最後一次慶祝結婚紀念日所穿的呢！
She was in her suite, which she wore during her last wedding anniversary with my dad, waiting me in her house.

她的頭髮還特意捲了一下，臉上的微笑像天使一般。
She made her hair specifically, smiling like an angel.

上了車後，她得意洋洋地說：「我告訴我的朋友，我要和我的兒子外出約會，他們都好羨慕，迫不及待要聽聽我們約會的情形。」
When she get into my car, she proundly said: all my friends were jeolous at me when they know that i'm gonna dating with my son.

我們去一家雖不豪華，但十分雅致，溫暖舒適的餐廳。
We went to a restaurent which was not expensive but with warmth and cozy environment.

我母親挽住我的臂彎，好像第一夫人一般。
My mom hold my hand as she was the wife of president.

入座以後，我必須幫她看菜單點菜，
After seat her, I help her to order her food,

因為她的眼睛現在只有大的字才看得見。
Because she only can read the big capital words.

用餐一半時，我抬起頭來，看到母親正在凝視我，
When we were eating, I found she was stare at me,

嘴角帶著懷舊的笑容說：「記得當你小時候，總是我為你看菜單的。」「那現在妳正好可以休息，輪到我來為妳服務了。」我回答。
She smile and said: I remembered that during ur childhood, I always make the order for u. I answered: then now is ur chance to take a rest and let me to serve u.

一面享用晚餐，我們一面聊天，聊得很愉快，
We keep talking during our dinner,

談了許多最近幾年來，各自生命中的一些事。Sharing about our life and some special things heppening these few years.

我們聊得太久了，所以趕不上電影。當我送她回到家門口，
We talked for very long time until we missed the movie. When I fetched her back to her house,

她說「我要再和你一起外出，但下次讓我作東好嗎？」我答應了。
She asked: I'd like to date with u next time, but please let me pay the bill next time. I agreed.

回家後，妻子問我：「你的晚餐約會如何？」
When I back to my home, my wife asked: how's ur date with ur mom?

「非常有意思，比我想像的好多了！」 ~我回答。
' It was interesting and fun, over my expectation', I answered.

幾天以後，母親因心臟病猝發而去世。這事發生得太突然了，讓我完全措手不及。
Few days later, my mom was passed away due to heart failure. The thing happened in an unexpected manner, I wasn't prepared for it at all.

不久以後，我收到一封信，裡面是上次我和母親約會的那家餐館的一張收據，上面有一張字條寫著：「我已先付了賬，因為我確定自己不可能再有機會去了，但我還是付了兩人份的賬──你和你的妻子。

你絕對想不到那一晚的約會對我有多大的意義，我愛你。」
Soon after this, I received a letter, there are a receipt of the restaurent that I dated with my mom, and a message: I already paid the bill for our next date, even though I know I'd probably won't have chance to date with u anymore, I still pay the bill for wo persons: u and ur wife. U will never know how meaningful the date to me, I love U.

從那一刻起，我深深體會，一定要及時說：「我愛你」，並且要常常撥出時間給我們所愛的人。
At the moment, I realised: we must always spare our precious time to our beloved, and told them u love them before it is too late.

世上沒有任何事比自然如來因緣和你的家庭更重要，多花時間和他們在一起，因為這事絕不能拖延到「以後有時間再說 ...」。
There is nothing more important than ur family, spend more time with them before it is too late.

「樹欲靜而風不止，子欲養而親不待」 是人生一大憾事。
Don't make any regret in our life.

~{ 愛無分 ,愛有份}~
不要等到爱得太迟，珍惜现在。祝您辛福！