拙笔写写抄抄

活著是一種心情。總有起風的清晨；總有絢爛的黃昏；總有流星的夜晚。不管昨天、今天、明天，能健康平安豁然開朗就是美好的一天。不管親情、友情、愛情，能永遠珍惜就是好心情。人生没有草稿，写完今天的这张就不可能再有同样的另一张。平常的日子总会被我们当做不值钱的“废纸”，涂抹坏了也不心疼，总以为来日方长，“纸张还有很多”。实际上，生活不会给我们打草稿的时间和机会，每一笔下去都无法再涂改，我们每天写下的“草稿”，都会成为人生无法更改的答卷。人生就像一張有去無回的單程車票，沒有彩排，每一場都是現場直播，把握好每次演出便是對人生最好的珍惜。

Saturday, June 21, 2008

2008-06-20 Good bye my Kenari

Good bye my Kenari who has accompanied me since Aug 2002.

在我这段悲喜的日子，小巧轻便的金丝雀陪我穿梭大街小巷....

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

你想当中国老太太、还是西方老太太？

以後你就會知道.....

十歲的我，面對天真的隔壁小女孩，她說：

「大哥哥，長大後我要嫁給你，

我會對你好，

以後你就會知道。」

二十歲的我，面臨聯考的挫折，只聽見父親說：
「大頭，不努力考上好學校，將來怎麼找到好工作，

現在貪玩，以後你就會知道。」

三十歲的我，第一次相親，媒人告訴我：
小嬋是個好女孩，聰明、孝順，會煮一手好吃的飯菜，

娶了有幫夫運的她啊，

會好運一輩子，以後你就會知道。」

四十歲的我，收到滿是紅色的體檢報告，醫師告訴我：
大頭先生，你該減少應酬，少抽煙喝酒，少吃肉類和生猛海鮮，

多運動，作息要正常。
你不好好保重自己的身體，以後你就會知道。」
!
五十歲的我，喝了自己兒子的喜酒，鄰座的阿尚告訴我：
「親家！恭喜你呵！娶一個水媳婦，
不過，能幹的媳婦難管，以後你就會知道。

六十歲的我，參加了小學同學的葬禮。
看到浮雲蒼狗，它彷彿告訴我:
「……以後你就會知道……。」

現在的我，
只擁有一本相本夾著幾張泛黃的照片；
幾張忘記要寄出、也不記得要寄給誰的情書；
幾件參加過無數喜喪的西裝；

一紙成績單包著數十年努力後的退休金；
還有一直陪在自己身邊的老伴。
我告訴我自己：

其實，你很富有；所以，把握當下，

珍惜一切，努力為人群去付出， 至於以後， 你－－根本不須知道。

忙的時候，想要休息；
渡假的時候，想到未來。
窮的時候，渴望富有；
生活安逸了，怕幸福不能長久。
該決定的時候，擔心結果不如預期；
看明白了，後悔當初沒有下定決心。
不屬於自己的，常常心存慾望；
握在手裡了，又懷念未擁有前的輕鬆。
「生命若不是現在，那是何時？」

「能隨心所欲的去過生活， 這才是人生!」

Monday, June 16, 2008

網路醫院

【神經與精神疾病】
‧頭痛 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro1.html
‧失眠 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro2.html
‧健忘 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro3.html
‧恐懼症http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro4.html
‧憂鬱症http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro5.html
‧情緒焦慮 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro6.html
‧暈車、暈船及暈機http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/neuro7.html

【呼吸系統疾病】
‧感冒 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/breath1.html
‧流行性感冒 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/breath2.html
‧支氣管炎 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/breath3.html
‧氣喘病http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/breath4.html

【其他影響全身的疾病】
‧過敏 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other1.html
‧疲勞 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other2.html
‧發燒 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other3.html
‧中暑 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other4.html
‧宿醉 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other5.html
‧體臭 http://www.webhospital.org.tw/home/myself/other6.html

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Womanhood

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter 'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters.

'Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them. Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women.....your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.'

What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After more than 40 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:

THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favours. Careers end.

BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.

When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

Pass this on to all the women who help make your life meaningful.

20岁是青春焕发飞扬的。
30岁是努力创业打拼时。
40岁，步入稳重不惑的阶段，散发出成熟的味道。

在这段旅程中，我们从曾经的步伐蹒跚，到如今踏着的稳实脚印。
成长的启发，一切都得靠自己。
我们应该懂得检讨自己，激发自己去省思未来的方向，用我们茁壮有劲的脚步，跨向真正的人生旅途。

从天真浪漫的女孩，到成熟优雅的女人，是一篇动人的成长诗歌。
唯有经过这趟生命的洗礼，才能成为充满魅力的女性。
心灵的成长，加上乐观进取的心态，爱自己、珍惜自己，我相信：人人都能成为动人的后天美女！

女记者回忆录
小妇人剪贴薄

坦白说，这是一个像回忆录多过像网志的部落格。

本部落格中90年代的文章, 都是在电脑中尚收存及寻获的存档 , 也是当年我担任记者时, 曾经刊登在光华日报的其中一部份专栏、评论、专访及专题特写。仅此纪念我曾经的文思。

可惜的是，从10岁动笔至今，有不少我个人满意及喜欢的文章，不知已遗落在哪一个角落.....

踏入2001年之后，工作职责上的转变，以及家庭的成立，蜡烛两头烧，已经鲜少有动笔的机会。偶尔发现好文章，赶紧贴上这儿，慢慢咀嚼，变相成了一个小妇人的剪贴薄......

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